I am not gonna lie. I got hit pretty hard by the line in the video “Instead of asking yourself over and over if you’re with the right person, ask yourself if you are doing enough to make that person right for you”. The grinch merry kissmyass I always have an inferiority complex, no matter who I was with.
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Countless of time I had always asked myself if I was the right person for the girl and just given up because I just feel that she deserves someone way better then myself. I’m pretty sure there are similar people out there as well but here’s the one thing that I need to emphasize: You may not feel as if you have any value at times, The grinch merry kissmyass but to your partner, you are everything she/he needs. It’s very common that you tend to not be able to see the good redeeming qualities you have but that isn’t really for you to decide because he/she fell for you for a reason.
And to those who have high expectations… The point I would like to get through you is simple really: It is always good to have a certain level of expectations, otherwise you would be selling yourself short in life. But then again, it is NEVER a good idea to put your expectations at an all time high because then you will never be able to achieve it, furthermore impossible because the expectations here we’re talking about is for your possible partner. Everyone has their own good and bad traits. It’s unavoidable. The whole yin and yang thing, the good and evil side, the superman and batman thing.
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You get my point. You might be that one person who has endless of choices to choose from… (Like 10000 guys courting after you), or that one who is slowly observing quietly to decide on the right one. But the thing is, if perfect really does exist, then logically, you and I wouldn’t exist because no matter what, we have our own flaws.
(If you think you don’t have any flaws and totally perfect, then congratulations: Your flaw is being stuck up) Here’s my advice: Find that one person who makes you feel good as a person, about life, about living, Compare your strengths and flaws against his/her strengths and flaws and see if they can somehow compliment each other. Per say your flaw is talking too much at times while his/her strength is being able to listen.