I always said the same thing. I had my daughter in my 30s. She is the absolute best thing in and about my life. I’m definitely not a natural mother, and I won’t be having any more. But, she is the perfect child for me and I’m the best mom for her. I’m just saying. Pat on the back. When my kids were little a friend told me this truth: It is impossible to have clean laundry, clean dishes and milk in the fridge at the same time, but if you have two of that is good enough.

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The hugs, smiles, & love make it all worth it! You just do the best that you know how and love them. Also they will be a special blessing when grandchildren arrive and you get to love them unconditionally! So sad for those with no children to love and who will love you – especially in your old age. Pat on the back. This whole u have to have a kid to be happy needs to stop people have the right to not have children and it doesn’t have to be a norm. Take this item now! We have all sizes and color for you. I respect someone who knows that they don’t want one and won’t bring one into the world just cuz society says to and btw I’m a mom but I still agree with the choice and people need to stop guilt tripping women into it smh.

Think shady car dealership guy. Sure, we love our kids. We have to. But bet your sweet cats we hate them sometimes. Even those that deny it know deep down it’s true but society conditions us to not speak about the ugly underbelly of parenting. So continue enjoying your freedom with loved ones, travelling around the world, spoil yourself with things (especially white shirts and pants), stay up late and wake up late, spend your time however you want, and lastly cuddle those furbabies for me. Hopefully you get grandkittens. I’ll be living vicariously through you. I might get hate for being brutally honest here but alas at least I’m not in denial wanting others to reproduce.

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Oh that way you get to say my children would never ever act like that. Maybe the most satisfying feeling ever. Too late for me. Did you know that no doctor will put them back where they came out of??? There went my backup plan. Is not that bad! I raised 3 and one more in high school and they’re good independent hard working citizens! Common you guys you make motherhood sound like impossible! I would not trade a minute of the tears, joy and challenges! Is about raising kids with God! That’s what it has been put aside! You cannot idolize your kids and make them bosses of your life! All in balance! And teach respect and set boundaries which many don’t do!