Sometimes I don’t want to be strong. Sometimes I want someone to wrap their arms around me and ask me how I am and how they can help me. I’m not a quitter and I’m not about to give up. I’m an august woman – I have 3 sides. God has my back. I think you might be doing better than I am. And think I told you I lost my best friend Nels, in june. I miss him so much. He was a huge part of my life, for 8 years. We talked 3-4 times a day.
Like the I’m an august woman – I have 3 sides shirt?
We have the same sense of humor, we wanted the same things, he always knew what to say when I had a bad day. He is/was the sweetest man I’ve ever known. Now I have a big gaping hole in my heart. I’m an august woman – I have 3 sides. I just miss him. Please accept this virtual hug from me and just know the pain softens and life goes on, but at your pace. It will take a while, and it sucks, but you will eventually feel human again. God bless you. I wish you a Merry Christmas. If it means anything – you would all be Mind blown at the thought of how many men are grateful / Thankful for the Strength of Women whom have taken the reins and guided the way through this Thing we call Life. Personally speaking, I am.
It seems that I have been single most of my adult life. Two marriages that didn’t work I feel the same as most of you I worked in mental health for almost 35 years. I called hugs touch therapy. And still fell that just a hug can help so much. Right now I need it so much. The holidays are always hard,it seems the older I get the harder it is. For your important month, just take this shirt and enjoy it! Then I look around and think why has she got a good man for45years or what ever then I always think but never say the words. Why Can’t I Have SomeOne??? I guess that’s a question many of us ask!!
Be a cool lady in your month!
Of course not! I am a strong woman, but people who love me still ask me how I’m faring everyday, because they know that no matter how strong I am, I’m not perfect. After a divorce thought my world had fallen apart. No it has never been better. What does not kill you makes you stronger. I am very thankful to the Lord for putting my broken pieces back together. Lifting me up when I was knocked down. Loving Jesus and praying for his guidance each and every day has been the best ever. I realize I do not need another person to complete me.
I have been forced to be a strong woman. We was thrown into complete independence, and had to stand alone. And do all of this very well,Not because I chose it, because it picked me. Nobody ever asks me if I’m ok. Much of the time I’m not. I would love to be cared for, but it’s not to be anymore. I sure can relate, no one calls to see how I am copping. My husband is not suppose to drive, but no one ever calls to see if he would like to get away for a bit. He will drive, not with me though. I quit arguing about him driving and just pray nothing bad happens.