My mom has come to terms with it and she doesn’t blame the kids because it was her DIL who caused this. However, in their defense, they are grown children able to make their own decisions. Don’t get on my nerves – Nerve disorder. Someday when/if they have kids hopefully they will see the error of their ways. You must be very strong and continue to be so.
Cool Don’t get on my nerves – Nerve disorder tee!
They have negative info embedded in their brain so that’s what they believe. At 32 they should form their own opinion. It does not work because they were fed all those negative ideas. Don’t get on my nerves – Nerve disorder. Believe you me I know where you are coming from. I have 2 grandchildren that won’t speak to their father either and 2 great grandchildren that do not know their grandfather yet alone know that I am their great-grandmother.
My other experienced it with my brother’s kids. Now 28 and 26. Has 2 great-grandchildren. They weren’t in touch for 15 years til my brother was dying. They were kind enough to let my mother know. She saw them all but they were basically strangers to her. My son recently had a son and so she is thrilled to have him, but I know she’d love to know the others. We are also an hour away in PA and they are in OH, grandson in CA. But, they never pick up the phone or send a card, picture or text. They don’t know of the loss they missed from their grandparents or aunts.
Get it now or Regret later!
I’m the mother of two AWESOME daughters and I know they would never do that!! I wouldn’t stand for it!!! I never kept my children from his mother!! How unfair that would be, not to mention spiteful! I think my daughters know this and were generous with the other Mom!! I’m truly sad you’ve been treated so poorly!! Karma will one day catch up to those girls mother and I know most certainly that when she meets our maker she will be judged, as she judged you!
If they are that old, it’s about time they grew up and told the their mum and the control freak that she is with to, bog off!! , or is there another side to this very sad story, was she screwing about or was he??, the questions need to be answered, life is to short.