Rules help children become the adult they should be…that’s why they have us as parents to guide, train and then let them go at adulthood to experiment all they’ve been taught. Being a mom is a full time job except no pay check no sick days shirt Letting them make decisions too early in life is a recipe for disaster as they don’t yet know how to stay out of trouble.
Being a mom is a full time job except no pay check no sick days shirt
Letting them mix with the wrong crowd leads to negative exposure and threat to their wellbeing. They can just pick up the wrong vibes from being with bad company. Like an apprentice, there’s time for internship and time to be on your own. From infancy to when they become officially adults, treat them like apprentices. Train them, teach by example, discuss freely (encourage openness-trust), assign tasks to them and let them make mistakes under your watch, Being a mom is a full time job except no pay check no sick days shirt so you can step in just before they do permanent damage to themselves or others. Train them to be people of integrity so that even in your absence they do what is right. Help them see how the rule benefits them. Be consistent and firm whether they like it or not…they will thank you later
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My husband and I have always been there, teaching and guiding our children. One child listens and responds like the Dr’s daughter. But two of our children (oldest and youngest) do not. They always challenge us as if oppositionally defiant. When given some freedom or rope, they sadly always hang themselves. Same bad choices time after time, never learning. All 3 haves Same parents, same household, same healthy pregnancies, same uneventful natural births, same environment—completely different attitudes and personalities. All 3 are brilliant. Only one can make good choices.